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At some point in time, the human population will always look forward to living independently. In some cultures, it is common practice for children to leave their homes and start living on their own upon reaching the age of eighteen. In some countries, children who leave their parents are frown upon but this does not prevent young adults to try to live independently. In this case, there are three important things to consider if independence is discouraged and you still want to experience it.
Knowing the purpose is one of the most important factors to consider when contemplating leaving the family abode. The reason for wanting to live independently should not be clouded with emotions and conflict. Avoiding family obligations and responsibilities should not be the cause. Running away from family problems is not synonymous with independence from home. Apparently, there are individuals who forego coexisting with family members is based upon issues and concerns. Independent living must be construed as an act of maturity and personal growth and development.
Living alone is a serious matter. Therefore, preparation is a fundamental factor to consider. It is not independent living going back to parents when problems occur. It is a must that the individual is equipped with necessary skills to support a healthy and balance condition when living on his own. So before reaching the stage when living independently is a must or reaching a decision to live alone, preparing for living alone must be secured by being financially and emotionally capable of doing so. It is wise to consult with friends or family members who are already living on their own in order to determine preparedness and capability when it comes to living alone.
Planning is essential in independent living. It takes time to live securely and confidently. A schedule or timeline of what to do over a period of time is the key to successful independence. Planning or and scheduling material acquisition, upgrading of residence, furbishing, renovation, and other things eliminate or minimize stress and pressure. The plan gives focus at different stages of independent existence. It is a checklist on what and how to develop and maintain successful independence.
These three important considerations are basic guides for a stress free independent existence. A lot has been said about various difficulties associated with living alone when in fact it should be celebrated. Independent living is a sign of personal development, achievement, contentment and settlement.